hi um. idk how often u talk to cote (feministlestat-inactive)(like i only saw u two talk on ur blogs once or twice) but. i saw a post that was really worrying like first thing and i was wondering if u know if shes ok? like im rly sorry if this is intrusive or anything im just. worried

Hmmm… I don’t often talk to feministlestat-inactive, I was saddened by their most recent post, and sent them a message. They haven’t answered me, if they do, I’ll update this post. Does anyone here have info on this person?

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You know, I’ve seen alot of ppl archive/go inactive during my time here on tumblr and it is especially worrisome when someone leaves a post like that. We just don’t know what a person is going through on their side of the screen, and it’s even harder here bc ppl often post about themselves in the exaggerated language of tumblrland hyperbole, so how are we to know when they’re being serious and really struggling?

If you, or someone you know, is struggling, there are help lines. 

I put some helplines under the cut. Thanks to festeringfae for this info, [http://festeringfae.tumblr.com/hotlinesIf that link breaks for any reason, the Main Portal is http://www.selfhelpgroups.org/


More links:

http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/gethelp/online.aspx

http://mentalillnessmouse.tumblr.com/post/21961172409/accepting-help-is-brave-hotlinescrisis-lines

http://togetherweare-strong.tumblr.com/helpline

http://insteadofcutting.tumblr.com/hotlines

http://emergencycenter.tumblr.com/post/17759435654/us-helplines

http://combatanonhate.tumblr.com/hotlines

http://knowyourdepression.tumblr.com/


http://www.crisischat.org/ Help for when you’re feeling suicidal, but can’t talk on a phone.

SuicideHotlines.com – Phone numbers and links to crisis centers and hotlines. Information on what to expect when you call and what to do if the number to your local hotline is not working. Also gives reasons on why one might want to call and words meant to comfort you

National Hopeline Network1-800-SUICIDE(1-800-784-2433)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK)

About Suicide: Crisis Intervention – Information on what to do if you or a friend is suicidal. As well as information for the survivors of a loved ones suicide. Numbers and e-mail addresses of those to write or call if you are feeling suicidal, as well as a list of resources.

American Association of Suicidology – Information on suicide for the suicidal individual and friends/family. Phone numbers and links to crisis centers and hotlines. As well as information on support groups available in your area. http://www.suicidology.org/home

Also, extensive research on suicide is available at a fee. A list of resources.

Befrienders International –http://www.befrienders.org/Finds resources in your country. Information on what to do if you are suicidal. As well as information on what to do if a friend is suicidal and the warning signs of suicide. Also, most importantly, phone numbers to crisis centers and hotlines and e-mail addresses of individuals ready to listen and to do what they can to help.

Last of all, information on depression, self-injury and homosexuality. As well as some additional information on suicide.

The Samaritans –http://www.samaritans.org/A charity based in the UK and the Republic of Ireland. It provides completely confidential emotional support to those who are suicidal and those who are in despair. This can be done through e-mail, the phone, snail mail or face-to-face. Publications are also available.