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I’m sorry, just a lil more birthday spam, I’ll queue them so it’s not a big avalanche on ya. Limited tumblr access for me this wknd, but I have some good asks to consider while offline, your regularly scheduled VC stuff will be back sooooon.
Thanks for your patience!
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I have about 15 asks that are fresh-ish (yay asks!), and I’ll try to get them answered today, which means I may be going over my usual self-imposed 10 post/day limit, I might schedule them for posting at spaced intervals so I don’t spam your dash.
Thanks for your patience, last week was kind of rough, I went to a funeral for a family friend, the deceased was a 16 yo boy (it was a heart attack) and I’m debating whether to post about it further, but… it was a reminder that life can be very short, real life comes first, time is precious.
Or you could try to play a role for someone, keep them on the surface as long as you can… they may leave ANYWAY bc you weren’t willing to open up.
Let’s throw away the idea of capturing someone like a fish on a line and trying to claim them, some kind of bizarre ownership situation. Share as much of yourself as you are able to, and if they leave because of what they learn, then you can enjoy the time you spent together and be free to find someone who is more compatible with you.
You may never find someone who is perfectly compatible with you. OTP’s are a great thing to fantasize about but not necessarily realistic.
Be happy on your journey through this life, take care of yourself, and if someone shares that journey with you (as a friend or as a significant other) for a period of time, great, if not, also great.
Throw away the idea that you need someone to complete you. You complete you.
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