Hey Auntie Jilli, do you have any tips for getting hair dye to stay? I’m a natural reddish-blonde and I tried to dye my hair green recently (I used 4 whole boxes of dye even) but the second I rinsed my hair out all the dye disappeared and it basically just dulled the red. I had my hair professionally dyed purple a few years back too and it didn’t even last 3 weeks. I’m not sure if I’m doing something wrong or if sometimes hair just doesn’t like dye?

gothiccharmschool:

Since you said green and purple, I’m going to assume you’re using semi-permanent dyes (such as Manic Panic, Splat, Special FX, and so on), so my advice will be around that. 

  • Heat or time. You either need to heat the dye on your head (which opens the hair cuticle so the dye penetrates better), or let it sit for at least an hour. (Because I work from home, I can leave my dye in for as long as I want, and I usually go for at least 3 hours.) 
  • Rinse in cool to cold water. 
  • Some people use a vinegar + water rinse after rinsing out the dye. I’ve done that in the past, but haven’t found it makes that much difference in extending the life of the color.
  • Wash your hair less often, and with a gentle shampoo. Washing always fades the color. (I only wash my hair once a week, and it’s fine.
  • Add a few tablespoons of your dye to your conditioner to refresh the color when you wash your hair. WARNING: this will stain your hands, but baby wipes or Dr. Bronner’s soap with a smidge of coconut oil (any oil, really) will remove the stain.

Maintaining unnaturally colored hair takes some effort, but I think it’s worth it. I hope my tips help! 🙂

Sometimes I feel like Louis. In my family, no matter how much I warn someone not to do something because there not going to like the consequences, they never listen and then I have to hear them complaining about how much they regret their decision. It’s mostly my mom, my older sister, or my teenager niece who don’t listen. It sucks being the voice of reason in my family when no one listens to me.

I know that feel, anon, and so does Louis. He definitely gives good advice (even if that advice is just “Wait! Think about this a little more!”) and even his most loved ones flat out ignore him. 

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And then Louis has to help them pick up the pieces from the damage that Doing the Thing caused :- 

On the plus side, he had become so good at giving advice that by QOTD, I think his arguments to Akasha re: not Doing the Thing were the strongest of the whole group! But he still failed to convince her. She didn’t even address his points. As shown by that scene, unfortunately, you can have the best warnings, the best arguments, your logic can be watertight, and ppl will still want to do what they want to do. The old adage is still true: You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink. I mean in Louis’ case, it was You can make a glass of blood for a vampire, but you can’t make him drink! He’s had his own share of resistance to advice, too.

When I think about my failures in warning those I care about re: the consequences of their actions, and then I’m proven right when they’re complaining about their decisions, I try to have peace of mind that I did my best bc I still care about them and their well-being. Hopefully they can at least appreciate that I care enough about them to continue to warn them against harm.

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In every single book, Louis has to make the “Don’t become a vampire if you can help it,” speech.