Hmmm… I don’t often talk to feministlestat-inactive, I was saddened by their most recent post, and sent them a message. They haven’t answered me, if they do, I’ll update this post. Does anyone here have info on this person?
You know, I’ve seen alot of ppl archive/go inactive during my time here on tumblr and it is especially worrisome when someone leaves a post like that. We just don’t know what a person is going through on their side of the screen, and it’s even harder here bc ppl often post about themselves in the exaggerated language of tumblrland hyperbole, so how are we to know when they’re being serious and really struggling?
If you, or someone you know, is struggling, there are help lines.
SuicideHotlines.com – Phone numbers and links to crisis centers and hotlines. Information on what to expect when you call and what to do if the number to your local hotline is not working. Also gives reasons on why one might want to call and words meant to comfort you
National Hopeline Network1-800-SUICIDE(1-800-784-2433)
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK)
About Suicide: Crisis Intervention – Information on what to do if you or a friend is suicidal. As well as information for the survivors of a loved ones suicide. Numbers and e-mail addresses of those to write or call if you are feeling suicidal, as well as a list of resources.
American Association of Suicidology – Information on suicide for the suicidal individual and friends/family. Phone numbers and links to crisis centers and hotlines. As well as information on support groups available in your area. http://www.suicidology.org/home
Also, extensive research on suicide is available at a fee. A list of resources.
Befrienders International –http://www.befrienders.org/Finds resources in your country. Information on what to do if you are suicidal. As well as information on what to do if a friend is suicidal and the warning signs of suicide. Also, most importantly, phone numbers to crisis centers and hotlines and e-mail addresses of individuals ready to listen and to do what they can to help.
Last of all, information on depression, self-injury and homosexuality. As well as some additional information on suicide.
The Samaritans –http://www.samaritans.org/A charity based in the UK and the Republic of Ireland. It provides completely confidential emotional support to those who are suicidal and those who are in despair. This can be done through e-mail, the phone, snail mail or face-to-face. Publications are also available.
ooc; So, I really, really passionately hate asking for things, and unfortunately, this is the second time in a year that I’ve had to post about veterinary bills.
This is Spice. She’s my dad’s cat, she’s almost eight years old, and she’s a sweetheart. She’s been really sick. A trip to the veterinarian revealed that she’d been retaining fluid in her abdomen and that her white blood cell count was through the roof. It all happened very suddenly. The veterinarian has diagnosed her with peritonitis in the abdomen, though we’re still not sure of the exact cause. There’s a chance it could be FIP.
She had to have an emergency surgery that’s required hospitalization at the vet’s. Our bill thus far is over $900.
Money has been really tight this past year and I’ve already almost maxed out my credit cards. My dad has been in and out of the hospital this year and hasn’t been able to work due to his disabilities. I’m his primary caregiver. I work two jobs and a good chunk of my money goes to covering his medications, insurance, and groceries. I sincerely would not ask for money if I didn’t truly need it. Getting Spice back to good health is so important to us. She’s a precious cat that we love dearly.
I’m willing to make graphics or do drabble requests in return for any money donated. Any little bit helps.
Help a VC fandom member kitteh out, show some $ love! If you can’t,
please reblog.
I know I JUST reblogged a $ignal boost thing in the last 24 hrs, and
I try not to do these too often for obvious reasons. I do know this person, the mun is a wonderful person with an enormous heart who has been called the “Mom” of our fandom on occasion for all she does to try to promote fanartists and encourage peace and friendship here, but that’s not a factor here.
I’m fortunate that I have a job, and can afford to be financially supportive
when possible.
What
if you were in this situation? Can you imagine the amount of strength it takes
to ask strangers for financial support?
TL;DR:
My point is this: All of this tumblr content you enjoy is free (aside from
whatever you pay your internet provider and whatever device(s) you paid for to
access it). I don’t have a ‘Donate’ tip jar on my blog. All of my content is
free.
If
you enjoy this stuff, please consider how little even $5 would be to pay for
the years of material I (and others) have produced for your pleasure in our
archives. merciful-death is offering to write drabbles or make graphics, don’t you need a fancy promo graphic? You do.
Take
that $5 (or more! *u*) and send it to someone whose life would be significantly
improved by it.
Like, if we were to meet one day, and you were to gush about how much you love my blog (bc you obviously do, I mean, c’mon, you know it’s true), would you pony up the $5 for a coffee to sit with me and squee over fanart in our coffeeshop AU? PUT THAT $5 TOWARDS THIS CAUSE.
Awwww that is totes adorable I am so honored! You’re not the first couple I’ve heard a similar thing from, and it warms my heart immensely
♥u♥ i kinda hope i will meet my other half thru fandom, it has happened for ppl before…
Kinky ideas, hmmmm? Wellll… I will have to start a new tag for that then! #Kinky Ideas. Starting with this post. If you can manage it, reenact the ^gif above or this fanart by DrKav, (it is one of my all-time faves) and send me a pic! Neither are significantly kinky so you don’t need to be in cosplay ;]
This fanart by anaryawe is more kinky, but you’d have to own a corset to reenact it… It’s Lestat and a lady, but Louis might be happy to substitute.
Mater Fabuloso is falling asleep rn and must be put to bed, but knows she has some interesting asks still to answer, THEY SHALL BE ANSWERED. Have patience, my fanged little trash kittens.
1- I am glorious above all things 2- Eat when hungry, sleep when sleepy, play when bored 3- Affection is given and received on my terms and only mine 4- Show displeasure clearly. 5- NO 6- Demand the things you want. If they aren’t given, demand them again, but louder this time. 7- If you are touched when you don’t want to be, say so. If they continue to touch you, make them bleed.
I-want-my-IWTV 