rosebushprince:

you never have to force yourself to change to “prove your abuser wrong” about whatever they said or implied about you. your traits or even flaws are never justification for the abuse you endured.

the end goal of recovering from abuse is not proving them wrong, being more successful than them, or anything of the sort if you don’t want to and/or can’t do any of the above. it’s living without the person(s) who hurt you, and being safe and happy doing whatever you feel the right path is for you.

you are strong and deserving of happiness on your own terms.

gothiccharmschool:

OH MY G-D FLUEVOG HAS COME OUT WITH A PAIR OF SHOES NAMED “THE LESTAT”. WITH BRUSHED STEEL HEELS. I NEED THEM.

::prays the 7 in men’s = 8 in women’s sizes::

You don’t understand. The depths of my COVETING for these shoes is off the charts. THEY’RE POINTY POINTY FLUEVOGS WITH A HEEL I COULD WALK IN AND THEY’RE NAMED FOR MY RIDICULOUS BRAT PRINCE. 

#LESTAT LIKES THIS #I WANT THIS BC OF REASONS

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NOTE: This info reblogged on his BIRTHDAY of all days nights!